Why Confidence Matters

Ever since we were children our parents have tried to fill us with confidence. They told us we were great even when we came in last at that swimming contest. They told us we were awesome even when we kicked that soccer ball out of bounds instead of into the goal. They told us we won even when we lost at getting asked to the prom in high school. This is what good parents do, and for a good reason.

Confidence leads to success. This article explains, “When we have confidence in ourselves at work, we tend to be more decisive, assertive, and take more initiative. We feel good about ourselves, our contributions, and our decisions, and may act a little more boldly. Others tend to also view us differently when we are self-assured, and will often support or be persuaded more easily by someone who exudes conviction in their views.”

The problem with confidence is that it is hard to fake. So that is why office professionals need to take stock and learn who they are and why they are valuable. Trust in the fact that you are capable and worth the money you make and perhaps even more. Confidence is giving yourself the respect you deserve and sharing it with others. Sometimes confidence is confused with arrogance, but don’t be one of those people. Share your knowledge with others and help them develop as office professionals. Share your self-worth, and you will find that it pays back more than a financial raise.

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